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We date whoever we want to. After all, shame is a wasted feeling. But sometimes, the people we go out with become mere footnotes in the chapters of our life stories.
These footnotes can be frustrating. Why? They’re also a waste. And that’s not without reason. You could’ve invested all your time and effort in a more worthy person.
As annoying as they are, more people are starting to see footnotes with little to no regret. Understandably, dating duds are inevitable, especially in the age of swipes. You’re bound to encounter bad apples along with the good ones.
Call it “dating for the plot.”
What Does This Mean?
You may have encountered this term on your most frequented social media platforms, especially if you’re an active dweller. But for those unfamiliar with it, here’s how it works:
Instead of focusing on the results, dating for the plot means enjoying the journey.
The “plot” refers to life itself. So, this phenomenon comes from the thought of doing things for the sake of living. You’re expounding about your dating life as if you’re narrating a movie or book review. And naturally, you’re the main character.
How Does It Work?
Dating for the plot can mean putting yourself in complicated but interesting situations. You may not get a happy ending, but your experiences sprinkle some spice into your love story.
Here’s an example so you can get the idea. You met someone from another country, and sparks flew between you two. Sensing the undeniable, they propose spending the entire day with you.
Your inner impulsive side makes you say yes, so you go on your little 24-hour adventure. You know both well that a happy ending isn’t guaranteed the next day, but you make the most out of your one day together anyway.
Dating this way doesn’t mean adding nonexistent bits or waxing poetic about your romantic conquests. Instead, it’s embracing your experiences to the fullest. Think of it as writing or typing something in all caps. You add color to the good encounters while throwing a little comedy into the bad ones.
Why Do People Date This Way?
This endeavor isn’t for everyone, but there’s a reason some pursue it.
Some like to slightly fictionalize their lives because they’re all for romantic narratives. And that’s not entirely bad! If anything, it’s human. Who doesn’t want to love and be loved?
For others, this fictionalization makes dating a little less daunting. Since most see it as a numbers game, the dash of dramatization adds color to an otherwise bleak experience. Sometimes, highlighting tiny details like shirt colors and how someone sits can make you appreciate a moment even more.
The Pros of This Leap of Faith
Embracing this manner of dating has its upsides.
First, it can diminish disappointments. Going on a date without focusing on an endgame will likely cause less frustration.
Second, it can help you let loose. Since disappointment isn’t hovering over you like a dark cloud, you can relax in relief.
Lastly, it can help you become braver. This approach encourages optimism, making you realize the beauty of unpredictability.
Dating for the plot isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, so tread carefully if you want to try it. You don’t want to break your heart while trying to open it.
