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Sometimes, we can’t help but picture futures with people we’re on first dates with. And I don’t blame anyone for that. Our feelings can get so intense that we can’t help but imagine ourselves with strangers.
But as tempting as dreamland is, let’s not overstay our welcome.
Often, we try to achieve a specific outcome after great first dates. And with that come expectations, which can be unrealistic. We refuse to see red flags and deny truths. And when reality finally hits, we blame the things that made us wear rose-colored glasses in love.
Fast forward to today, and the young daters aren’t having that. And so, NATO dating was born.
Challenging Norms and Defying Expectations
NATO is another one of the Gen Z relationship terms. But what on earth does it mean?
Let me start by saying this has nothing to do with the North Atlantic Treaty Organization. The acronym instead stands for “not attached to outcomes.”
This approach encourages daters to adopt an open mindset, paying little mind to concerns regarding a relationship’s outcome. It’s not all about chasing results. The experiences matter more than the destination.
Some readers may think this is just casual dating in a different package. The thing is, casual dating is what it is—casual. NATO focuses on discovery without paying much attention to endpoints. There’s no clock ticking telling you to hurry up.
Why Do People Practice NATO Dating?
First, the approach soothes worries of failure. Without the outcome being at the forefront, the anxiety dims. This lets daters have a more organic and enjoyable experience, freely expressing themselves without any worries.
Second, it drives personal growth. Since NATO allows daters to live in the moment, they learn more about themselves. This results in growth, which not only makes them better matches but also better people. Everyone can use this self-awareness and evolution.
And lastly, it prevents people from being hasty. Daters see and appreciate things as they are in the present. Because they’re content, they don’t make thoughtless decisions only to achieve the desired outcome.
Don’t Make It an Excuse
Don’t get it twisted: this approach doesn’t necessarily mean evading or completely nixing attachment altogether. We’re only humans, and it’s not surprising if we develop romantic feelings along the way. It happens!
However, don’t use the strategy as an excuse to escape commitment or emotional intimacy. There’s a difference between enjoying the present and completely disregarding the future. Treat it as a guide for making rational decisions instead of a shield.
And just some NATO dating advice to make the most of it: Be transparent about your expectations, wishes, and limits. This may sound like defining a relationship, but it’s effective for a reason. This clarity gives you a sense of where things are heading, minimizing doubt and confusion.
Is NATO dating up your alley? If so, go ahead and give it a spin. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. It may even be a strategy that fits you best at present.
